Pause Tank

Pause

This tank embodies the discipline of "Pause." It’s a reminder to take a moment before reacting—especially when life’s challenges get overwhelming and you’re tempted to speak or act impulsively. I’ve learned the hard way, after the fact, that too often I’ve put my foot in my mouth by reacting too quickly, only to regret it later. Pausing has become my way to avoid those moments, giving myself the space to think before I act.

In the past, when the sh*t hit the fan, I would respond without taking a beat—letting my words fly unfiltered and often making things worse. Now, I see the pause as a powerful tool, a chance to stop, breathe, and avoid those "foot in mouth" moments. It’s about recognizing that sometimes, what doesn’t get said or done in the heat of the moment is just as important as what does.

Wearing this tank is a reminder that pausing isn’t about hesitating—it’s about learning from experience and responding to life’s messes with intention, wisdom, and clarity. It’s for those who, like me, have learned that taking a moment before reacting can save you from regret and help you navigate life’s challenges with more grace and control.