Making Desicions with the Mind or the Heart?

Making emotional desicions; learning how to process my feelings is a difficult challenge for me these days.

Trying to find balance between the mind and the heart. The two are separate but work as one when in alignment. When they're not, I find it difficult who to ask?

My heart, always impulsive, can't see black and white, it is literally blind ... a hopeless hopeful and gets hurt easily. Is asking, what do I do with this feeling?

My mind, logical , analytical, judgemental, do this first and then that, quick to remind of past mistakes. "Tat tat tat, you're going to get in trouble if you...do this or don't do this, say this or don't say anything at all". Most of the time is asking, how do I do this?

I am like, ok its listen to my heart but follow my mind?

Why is so hard for the heart to understand what the mind already knows? Because is still in love?, there is hope? Is not over yet?

Is it too difficult to follow your heart? No it is not, but better bring my brain with me just in case to remind me of past experiences and lessons.

Can I follow my mind and disregard my heart? Never!...they both need to be in alignment and synchronized, thought and emotions to make the right desicion.

But how do I know I am making the right decision? Ah, I will never really know until I make that desicion...says both the mind and the heart.

How do you make difficult emotional decisions?